Sleeper, Bunch of us here are in similar time frames.

I think you're right that it is important to concentrate on ourselves and living our lives. I have found that minimizing contact w/X has been beneficial to me; I have other stuff going on now.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D