Let me add one more thing. Confidence is attractive for both men and women. Cockiness is not. Their is a fine line between the two but you'll know the difference when your faced with it.
That was part of my first point- not caring what others think about how they should be.
You have to feel good about yourself if you want someone else to care for you.
This is why they say it here so much.
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