would it be unfair if the person expected the same of you?
Absolutely not. those are my values and what I will give to my partner.
I understand no one will be perfect.
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does it put the pressure on the other person to do/be the same
This wouldn't work b/c that's not who person is.
I'm not trying to be something I'm not. I know who I am, I know what I'm looking for and I am understanding that no one is perfect. Choose the values that are most important to you and I'm sure you will find someone.
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nobody will approach you .. thinking that you are not in their league. you end up lonely anyway.
What I described, women wouldn't know that until we went out a few times.
Some times I go out by myself for a bite to eat and watch a game. I mind my business but I'm friendly to whomever sit near me, men or women. It's just my nature to be friendly. I am a very approachable person, maybe women feel I'm not but that's not me. They must have a confidence issue.
Nothing ventured nothing gained. Yo ucan sit back and wait for something or you can be proactive.
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