Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

FB chats don't show up in the browser history.
--- Yes, I know. But, she is not friends with the OM on facebook, I know who he is, thus chatting is impossible.

Also:

- Does she chat over AIM or Skype? ---no I found her chats were limited to gmail chat only, and emailing and phone calls.
- Do you own a webcam? --- yes I do, and she has one on her computer as well. I suspect she had webcam chats with OM.
- Have you checked for deleted pictures on the digital camera or sent/deleted items in her email? ---- Yes, and I found the playdate pictures. I checked the Metadata on them and they were dated 6/4/10. So, the playdate was about 6 weeks ago. I confronted her on the EA on 5/27/10. Bomb dropped 6/20.
- Does she have a Twitter account? --- No. Checked into this actually.
- Does she have a secret disposable cell phone or an email address you don't know about? ---No disposable cell phone. I've checked all our banking transactions including "cash back" type availability at the grocery store, etc. Looked at reciepts as well. I have access to all of our accounts. She was using her usual cell phone to contact this person. She DID have an email address I didn't know about, but we went into it together and she deleted it completely in my presence. I've checked for anything contrary to her having another email account very deeply and haven't found anything.

What happens around the house when you're not home? Just a few weeks ago, it was a secret playdate with OM. ---- The playdate was on 6/4/10, before the bomb. I wasn't clear about this before.


Honestly, do you really feel safe around your W right now?
--- I guess that's the ultimate question in all of this. Right now, I feel safe around my W. Maybe I got carried away with asking for everything when I was sure she wasn't doing anything. She has given me no reason to be suspicious in the past few weeks.