The balance on the other two cards is paid in full each month. No birthday or anniversary coming up and my Father's Day gift was paid using one of our two joint cards. I do not know what the individual charges were for because I can just see the total amount paid out of our checking account. Total amount paid was $271.00.
Thing is we are still physically separated and she's free to open as many individual accounts as she wants. It just sends me mixed messages, especially with what has gone on with us recently. Me thinks she may be back to cake eating.