You said earlier today that she wasn't willing to show you her phone, and you didn't have her FB password. Has that changed?

FB chats don't show up in the browser history.

Also:

- Does she chat over AIM or Skype?
- Do you own a webcam?
- Have you checked for deleted pictures on the digital camera or sent/deleted items in her email?
- Does she have a Twitter account?
- Does she have a secret disposable cell phone or an email address you don't know about?

What happens around the house when you're not home? Just a few weeks ago, it was a secret playdate with OM.

I'm not trying to beat you up, Suma (much...), but Puppy, PMA and I are trying to warn you about the elephant in the room. You need to have transparency and trust before you can give her space, otherwise you're just going to be back here the next time you stumble across some evidence you didn't think to look for.

Honestly, do you really feel safe around your W right now?