MP & LRT,

OK. Dead to rights thinking like a guy. I guess I can accept this at face value even though I don't understand it as long as I know what it is going in. So I do NOT set the record straight, even though it makes me look like an ogre.

LRT, Thank you for the Ladies perspective.

Just out of curiosity, how do I now show empathy while detaching, setting boundaries and acting "as if". More importantly, if we turn this thing around, will she always be afraid? If not, then does it become a constant threat.

Since you're here, what does this morning signify to you?

Thanks again for the help.


ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE.
-Tom Highway


Me: 43
W: 40
S12 & S9
Married 17yrs
Together 20yrs