OK. Dead to rights thinking like a guy. I guess I can accept this at face value even though I don't understand it as long as I know what it is going in. So I do NOT set the record straight, even though it makes me look like an ogre.
LRT, Thank you for the Ladies perspective.
Just out of curiosity, how do I now show empathy while detaching, setting boundaries and acting "as if". More importantly, if we turn this thing around, will she always be afraid? If not, then does it become a constant threat.
Since you're here, what does this morning signify to you?
Thanks again for the help.
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs