Mel. I often forget to mention this soon enough but It important.
If this DOES hit your H hard he MAY try a few tactics here :
a. He may call and just blast you b. He may call and tell you he's sorry and he's ending his affair - don't believe him c. He may call and try to negotiate further
Refuse it all.
Put a very clear BEAR MINIMUM list together that you insist he commit to before ANY CONTACT with you... Go through family or whatever.. do what you can to avoid giving him this list yourself.
1. Full Transparency is a must 2. A no contact letter 3. Change cell number, email address, etc 4. Family therapy sessions 2 x a week etc
You put your list together... he will TRY to negotiate or call or tell you its over... NEVER accept his first turnaround.. It's almost ALWAYs a PLOY
