would it be unfair if the person expected the same of you?
let's say a person is all of these things and a bowl of ice cream. does it put the pressure on the other person to do/be the same?
when you want these things in a person, it puts pressure on you to hold yourself to that calibre. and in the end, nobody will approach you .. thinking that you are not in their league. you end up lonely anyway.
not saying that i am all that and a bowl of ice cream. i'm still working on me.
