I once caught my soon-to-be ex looking at Playboy, years after I first caught it and asked him not to. He just laughed and said, "I read it for the articles." ha ha.
The joke was on me. I believed him. Years later, I came to find porn (and not-so-soft porn) on my computer, where he was a member of that (and a gazillion other escort sites).
Then I found a piece of paper in his wallet with names, Websites and prices for an hour, two hours and a night. Then, I called some of the contacts in his phone, and he was furious. (They were all women) for which he had an-other excuse.
There was violence, and a separation, and now we are going through a divorce. He plans to see one of his prostitutes next week. (Ask me how I know).
We are also going to court for domestic violence very soon. It is not only addictive, but depraved and heinous to those they once proclaimed to love.
We are not sick. It is they who put us in our abyss, who are to blame, who need to take responsibility for their depravity. And if they are not ready, they need to be pushed, ordered by a judge or simply removed from your presence. Just my humble opinion.
