Hate to make light of this Suma, but all the classic signs are there for her manipulating you. When you get close to the truths she "throws you a bone" by giving you affection.
Break the cycle by telling her HOW ITS GOING TO BE. TAKE BACK THE POWER AND CONTROL. Tell her that YOU NEED TIME TO THINK ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS. That TRUST is CRITICAL in a R and M and she HAS NOT DONE ENOUGH to PROVE HERSELF to YOU. SET YOUR BOUNDARIES FOR HER GAINING BACK YOUR RESPECT and STICK to them.
