What do you consider "contact"?

[EJohn]

We are currently living in separate homes (she has the house, I'm in an apartment) with our own bills since Easter 2009.

All I said was that it was over, I didn't say I was going to file. The other week when we argued about her being at his family's pond, which she told me shouldn't be a problem "cause there's 100 acres in between them", she told me to file because she isn't going to.

I was paying her $205 a month per the temp court order, but I haven't given her a dime since the state dismissed the divorce.

The only consequence I can think of is going dark. It's funny, she didn't block me on facebook, so I can still see her profile pic which is my son at OM families pond. I gave her till the end of the day. If it's still there, then I'll block her, which will mean she won't have access to a lot of our kids pics, but that works against me too.

She knew his aunt and uncle before the affair, so she feels that it is okay for that contact.