So today, evidence of a new credit card emerged. It's not like she purposely tried to hide it since the payment for it is coming out of our joint account, however I knew nothing about it and we already have two credit cards that we have used for more than 10 years.

Thing is six weeks ago I could not have cared less about this since there were no signs that we were doing anything other than getting divorced. Today when I saw it, I got that familiar sick feeling in my stomach which I absolutely hate having and did not miss at all. This whole process just stinks.

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