Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Sandi - thank you. Brilliant. That's what I needed to hear - the truth. I feel confident in everything you just said. I've said it to myself before "This is her way of trying. Don't expect anything", yet inside my heart I crave that attention and love NOW. This is my failure.

This is brilliant. Thank you. Time to stand up, be strong, stop expecting, act As If.

From what I gather from you your advice is, and correct me if I'm wrong:
- Stop initiating physical affection
- Stop saying ILY
- If she does offer affection or an ILY, then say give it back to her, say thank you, and don't expect it again?

Right?