They DON'T have a baby yet. They are TALKING and discussing and sharing their feelings and looking into having a baby.
This is how relationships go. Your goals change. This is how reconciliations go. People talk about whether they are going to keep the same house, or buy a new one. She is sharing her feelings...
I say.. LET HER SHARE her feeings. I have yet to see that it is a done deal that they are now having a baby and it is set in stone and she is using him... I say.. Let her open up and dream about it and he should be ALLOWING her to open up and and allow himself to be open to the same dreams.
Gooch,
You know I luv ya, man, and I am in FULL AGREEMENT with your general "you need to be a HAPPY MAN" advice that you've been giving OIN here. Real "4 Whistles" kinda stuff.
But this is NOT what you said the other day. You've changed your stance here. And besides, it's not a distinction that can be made when she's trying to get him to HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX WITH HER, now is it??
