It's all about the looks-to-aggravation ratio, LOL. If she's drop-dead gorgeous, we put up with a lot more than if they're not.
LOL. i've never heard that before but i get it.
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-- Purpose; she has her own passions and interests outside of me, and they are causes that I can admire.
i think this is tough sometimes ...
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-- Is into me. Genuinely asks about my work, my family, my passions, my interests.
check.
the reason why i ask is .. i've been doing a lot of work on myself. i am preparing for life with or without h. i want to put my best person forward. but at the same time, i have expectations too.
i'm a good dresser. i wear the 4" pumps. i do the makeup, perfume, skin care thing. i exercise. i have worked on myself to get into shape, found hobbies/interests that i enjoy, i do whatever it takes to take care of myself financially. i have a good head on my shoulders.
i have expectations of the person i want to be with as well. i expect the other person to keep up or be similar (not the heels!). is that considered to be 'b*tchy'?
