OK, then I guess I can't help you, Suma. Why you would NOT need transparency, after multiple offenses, says as much about you as it does about her. In any event, I feel like I'm just beating you up, which I don't really want to do, so I'll just wish you good luck.
Puppy
I'm truly valuing your advice, and I don't feel like you're beating me up at all. I really value your input, so don't stop I feel like I have enough transparency right now - I have her email and history of her computer. That's transparency for me in my mind.
For curiousity, what would that say about me (honestly) if I didn't want transparency after multiple offenses? I'm a big boy
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