Running out of time.

[Cie la vie]

CTH,

I learned Friday that minimizing contact with STBXW is crucial right now because she can't win right now.

I'm not following you, what do you mean by this?

My feelings about selling the house are multi-faceted. One I thought I would be raising my children in that home through their high school years. Two, you absolutely could not pick a worse time in California history to be selling a home. 6 months from now might be a worse time but were not there yet. At this moment in time it has never been worse.

My STBX broke the communication silence today to send me her monthly bill. In the email she asked if she could come by the house if I am not there. I said no. She wants to pick up photo album of herself when she was a kid. It has been 15 days since we last communicated. Unfortunately we will more than likely be communicating more often until the house sells.

My goal once the D is final and the house sold is to limit my need to communicate with her to once a month if at all possible. Longer would be better but I don't think that is realistic and once a month might be a stretch as well.