I just feel like I rocked the boat more now, and that she really is giving up the OM - I just solidfied my insecurity and self-pity by asking for transparency when I didn't really NEED it to continue this M.
OK, then I guess I can't help you, Suma. Why you would NOT need transparency, after multiple offenses, says as much about you as it does about her. In any event, I feel like I'm just beating you up, which I don't really want to do, so I'll just wish you good luck.