I am not Puppy and I thought it be best I keep my mouth shut but...
A few weeks ago OIN's W couldn't even begin to manage her work schedule, a gardening project or other really normal things. She was tearing things up and breaking things. I guess I just find it odd that now she is in a place to have a child.
The statement that struck me REALLY odd is OIN said he always had an excuse as to why they could not have a baby for years. His wife JUST turned 25 last week and they have only been married for 9 months. How many years has she been wanting a baby with you? If ya'll got together when she was 14 and you mentioned school being in the way it just seems strange to me (which I realize means jack crap!).
Throwing a baby in the mix (even if you both want one) at this time seems like a bit much IMO!