Thanks guys! Well, Romeo, you said to be myself! So true...basic and simple..but have you not been following my threads for the last 10 months to see how anxious I can get? lol! Still, you are right. When I am interested in someone, I want them to show their ineterest in me. So here is what I think and what I need regardless of game playing etc.

Last night, I reached out to him via text (hoping we could talk on the phone if his kids were in bed).

But now I would like him to show his interest in seeing me by calling me next (or texting). I did say I wanted to set up our kayak date!He knows I am interested!

There is a "dance" to expressing interest vs. being too pushy! Think of what we have learned with DBing! smile

I also need to remember there is no rush!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004