Thanks guys! Well, Romeo, you said to be myself! So true...basic and simple..but have you not been following my threads for the last 10 months to see how anxious I can get? lol! Still, you are right. When I am interested in someone, I want them to show their ineterest in me. So here is what I think and what I need regardless of game playing etc.
Last night, I reached out to him via text (hoping we could talk on the phone if his kids were in bed).
But now I would like him to show his interest in seeing me by calling me next (or texting). I did say I wanted to set up our kayak date!He knows I am interested!
There is a "dance" to expressing interest vs. being too pushy! Think of what we have learned with DBing!
I also need to remember there is no rush!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004