It's all about the looks-to-aggravation ratio, LOL. If she's drop-dead gorgeous, we put up with a lot more than if they're not.

To me, it is:

-- Face (looks)

-- attitude. I like a playful/flirty/confident woman.

-- body.

-- Purpose; she has her own passions and interests outside of me, and they are causes that I can admire.

-- Is into me. Genuinely asks about my work, my family, my passions, my interests.

When all else fails, "looks really good in 4" pumps" is always good, but then I guess that's pretty much covered by the 1st and 3rd bullet points. laugh