Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

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She said that she doesn't want to feel like I'm her father checking up on her all the time, and doesn't want to live in a relationship like that.

A: "I understand. I wouldn't want to either. Unfortunately, since you are the one who has had multiple affairs, I have decided that this is something that I need in order to protect myself, and know that you're sincere in trying to work on our marriage, without the influence of a third person. If you don't want to, I'll have no other choice than to assume you either ARE still carrying on with someone, or, you at least want to keep the door open so that you CAN. Either way, I'll have my answer."

And then I'd give her 5 minutes to decide, without letting her out of my sight.

Tough stuff, I know. Serial infidelity always is.

Puppy

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This is the most important advice you have been given and you have to settle this issue before you can worry or move onto another.

We all know you love your wife and you want it to work...we get it. But there are serious issues here that should have been addressed years ago...