Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

quick update:

Went home at lunch. Stated that I wanted to talk about a list of things I've come up with after much thinking.

Her response:

1. Transparency - she said she already enabled history on her computer and gave me her email password, what else do I want? I said phone records, FB pwd, etc. She said that she doesn't want to feel like I'm her father checking up on her all the time, and doesn't want to live in a relationship like that. She adamantly reinforced that NOTHING is going on with OM. She hasn't left the house in days (i know this for a fact) and hasn't talked to any OM.

2. IC - she agreed to go, but money is an issue. We're already paying for MC, and i goto IC. I asked if money was not an issue would she go, and she said she would. I may have to seek other avenues of money for this, maybe my parents

3. MC, or change in MC - she is open to keep going, and change MC if we need to. I think the MC we have isn't really that great, she couldn't remember my W name on the 2nd visit, and she really doesn't give us "homework" other than "be nice to each other, treat each other like coworkers, and live day to day until i see you next". We've been in 3 sessions with that MC.


When leaving to go back to work she said, "Stop worrying about me. I'm not doing anything. I'm just here raising our child, I'm not doing anything anymore." I responded with, "Then I should just focus on us?", and she said, "Yes". Gave me a huge hug and the biggest kiss she's given me in weeks. I scooped her up like a knight in shining armor, carried her to the bed, laid her down playfully (all the while we were laughing) and planted a good kiss on her, and she responded well. Well, let's see how this afternoon goes - she was in a good mood when I left.