I pretty much walk around happy most of the time at this point. I don't let her get me down. I have good neighbors that I talk to and all of the blow-ups with the OM and his OW2 and my contact with the OMW are actually funny at this point.
I'm starting to feel sorry for her.
I told her she is pathetic. She said that I was pathetic if I thought our D had anything to do with OM, because it would have happened anyway. I told her that it happened because of HER OTHER PROBLEMS and then I walked away. She is out of her mind.
Today is our 14th wedding anniversary and W's 44th birthday. I let the kids buy her a few presents, but I didn't acknowledge anything this morning. A few women from work are taking me out tonight early and then we have a softball game. Probably go out after that for a while too.
I told them I wasn't going home until after W was in bed. They said I should get a hotel room and not go home at all!