When do you consider an affair to be over? If they haven't talked for a couple of weeks or if she is mad at him for having OW2, is it over? Or does it take more time to lose "those feelings" for the OM? I think someone said it could take months.

You guys are all right. I will tell her she is not going.

PMA, she just may be gone as you say above. Sometimes I think that is the case and other times I think she is going to crack. I just don't know. It will help to have a court date and get some structure around this thing.

I'm going to miss you IDU. Be sure to post once in a while and let us know how things are going. Best of luck to you.

Thanks everyone!