Ya roles did switch I could make excuse after excuse as to why but it boils down to doing something diffrent. I was always doing Things my way and not really reassuring her when she needed it, guess in a sense I'm trying to be nicer than what I use to be( which is my 180 because I come across as a cold person untill I decide to open up) and it's actually opening a lot of " doors" for me at the moment. The cat food sadly ya a stupid budget for what I can spend for our cats why'd I agree with that? Because I didn't feel like arguing with her over something petty.
