Setting them free

[gardengirl72]

H has been staying at vacation home up north, so it has been easier not having him around. H went there 6 months ago to figure things out!

I kind of feel that way a lot of times. She continues to act towards me like she did previously, except without any affection.She still wants to tell me about her problems at work, whatever. I am about at the point where I want to tell her to stop. She is not my friend. These things don't affect me any longer. I guess I just need to walk away when she starts.

I have done this for the last 6 months. Trying to detach and acting 'as if'. Talking to him on the phone like everything is 'great'!! I think when he would call, it was to get the W 'fix' same as OW 'fix'.

But, when we are together, it is so hard because it feels like a big fat lie!! WE get long and have an OK time, but there is no affection....I feel for everyone who has to do this while living with their spouse.

I told him last week I could not be his 'friend' while he thinks it's ok to talk to OW. I WILL NOT DO THIS ANY LONGER!!!!

I don't want to talk to him on the phone or if he comes home to work on something I told him I would go to other house.

He called twice today...first call I took....he had some lame excuse why he called....second call I let go to voice mail.

It was another lame excuse, ending with...."call and let know."

I called MIL (she was with him) told her the answer and said I DO NOT want to talk to him while he still thinks its OK to talk to OW!!

He can get his W 'fix' somewhere else!!!

I, too, am at a point now where I don't know if I really want my H back.

Does that make me a WAW??