only serious sit downs was about 10 ys ago, thought we got past it
thinking back her behaviors started changing about middle of last yr. for the worst but she has always hidden spending from me and the new lower neck line started about 6 months ago.
told W this morning that I needed to talk to the counselor alone and we could re-schedule for the joint session, she didn't seem to mind but has now called me 3 times (I had my phone on silet so I really did miss all three) and I've not called her back yet.
