Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

Thanks bluestar, that was helpful and I'm leaning towards doing what you recommended. I'm still split on the b.day stuff only because DD's really looking forward to it and since she's turning 6 she'll probably remember this one forever. Last one she was still a bit babyish. So I keep waffling between sucking it up and doing this last b.day together or doing my own thing.

School wise I caved in and decided to send DD to the private school since she said she'll pay for the tuition portion for this school year. She should've gotten the letter about this from my attorney on Fri but she hasn't said anything. I just called the school and made an appt for a visit so I'll let her know.