Thanks, LSG. Yes it was a difficult decision and it certainly doesn't mean that I wouldn't consider a turn-around from my husband. It just means that I won't accept being married to someone who is living with another woman. And, it puts me in a good place to protect myself and my daughter financially and emotionally while my H has clearly gone off the deep end.
I know H has no access to the kinds of funds he needs to put a lawyer on retainer. I've been advised by my L not to give him anything out of our accounts (lucky me - they're in my name)but to save separation of those monies for negotiation. I guess he will have to charge a lawyer or ask OW for $$.
