I'm back and looking for insight

[kat727]

So did you ask what he wants to be different? Sounds like he doesn't even know. Priceless stuff they say! Just thought I would throw this out there: While my H and I were already in the D process, he stated that he was no longer having an affair. I was shocked and said really? He said no, because it was no longer secret! What an a$$!! Hope that gave you a laugh.

kat