Is anyone irritated by their WAS? Like you don't want to see them or talk to them? It is like the same way they used to act with you except now you are the one who is at this point? Do you feel like you just want to be anywhere except where they are?
It is hard for me not to give off this vibe. Is anyone else experiencing this?
I never thought I would be the one running in the opposite direction. I never thought that I would be the one wanting space. Wow.
That's exactly where I am right now. And you know what? It's soooooo liberating. I've been here for about a month or a bit more. There were a number of things she did that pushed me over that edge between wanting to let go to really letting go. I basically ignore her when we are in physical contact.
It's been a year and a half since she said she wanted a D, and about a year before that when the bomb dropped. We lived in the same house until January of this year and it made it virtually impossible to let go.
The physical separation is what really helped a lot. Plus her vindictive actions.
I don't care what she does. It's her life and I'm not interested in knowing anything about it. The only tie we have is concerning our children. Other than that she's pretty much invisible.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
