Short of RUN, what would you suggest?

- Her go to IC? I am already going.
- Stop physical contact?
- Stop ILY?
- Continue on the 180? It seems like she's getting happier as I progress through this 180 - we're laughing and joking and smiling alot more
- She is going to NY in one week for a family reunion which has been planned for months, going to be gone a week. What should I do / act like when she is gone?
- Let things get better, then suggest IC? Or IC now?
- Demand cell phone records, all passwords for FB, email, chat?

Last edited by suma1; 07/20/10 03:46 PM.

----"Et tu, Brute?"----
me:28 W:24 S4
T:6
M:4
EA Exposed: 5/21/10
Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day)
NC w/ OM: 7/10/10
W moved out 8/21/10
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