Don't confront until you are ready to do it. It will be much better for you at that time.
Do look for a job, so you do feel less dependent on him. It takes a while to find one in this economy, so you will be focusing on yourself, and it would be a good 180. It is tough to find one, so keep looking.
I am in a similar situation with the unemployment and it sucks, so when you have time do it.
I know school and everthing else makes it difficult.
Don't get so caught up in the M you don't do what needs to be done for you too.
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