We went out and she said that she at least wants our friendship back. I told her that unless she completely cuts the OM out of her life (close Fb, change phone #, complete transparency for BOTH OF US, etc) that there would be nothing. I told her that I would remain civil and we would have to get along to deal with the kids, finances, etc.
Navajo My heart goes out to you dude. I have been legally separated from my wife for 5 months, joint custody with two girls 5 and 8. I was on the internet the other night and for some strange reason just did a search on face book and low and behold my wife has recently signed up. She has contacted every single friend she had when we first met and dropped all contact with all of my our friends. My sister in law was her best friend and she hears nothing from her. My wife has some 40 friends on face book….40 I also have noticed she has male friends she is contacting single males not sure . I have heard this is where people can go to re connect with old friends (wink) I have not been able to sleep for days. I have promised myself I will never again search her name on FD again. How did you find out about your wife OM. I would think face book can’t be good. My girls say all mom does at her house is text and web chat. My kids are young and they have picked all of that up…so smart. Cheers Stitch