Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

(Come on, who makes a move on a married woman with a child...)

are we being naive here? If she doesn't where a ring who knows her sitch?

Any guy could make a move on an attractive woman.

Exactly! The email exchange that I found with this guy on May 27th was like she was living some kind of different life. She claimed she was a teacher, was going to fundraisers for kids, but that's all I know for certain. She'd made up this alternative life and I don't have the details of it.

Also, when we first were dating when she was 18 she told me that her mother died and I, frankly, at the age of 22 didn't know how to support that very well. She blamed me alot for not "being there for her" when her mother died.

I later found out after we were married, though never confronted her, that she never had a mother that died - she explained it like her father had another woman or something. I've since confronted her about that since the bomb and she just says "why would you bring that up". I told her she had a lying problem but she denies it.

Also, when we were dating when she was 18-19 she told me she had cancer. It was actually believeable because her father died of cancer when she was 10. She would have seizures and then all of a sudden everything was OK. This was about 6 months into our R. I later found out that was a lie.