Originally Posted By: eeyore_no_more

I'd expect that the OM from her school is still in the picture.

Can you gather intel, like cell phone records or computer browsing history to verify?

Also, after her EA three years ago, what kind of transparency plan was put into place so you could trust her again?

Good luck. No matter what happens, you are going to be okay.


After the first EA three years ago, I had access to her email and cell phone, etc. I felt like after a couple of years I didn't need to check up anymore so I didn't, then this other EA started.

After exposing the EA, she promised not to make contact again (May 27). I found out later she was still in contact around July 4th or so. She had LIED to me about not introducing our S to this person, I found pictures of OM and my son at a playplace together on her phone. I confronted her and her response was "I didn't tell you because its over and it would only hurt you."

I gave her the ultimatum then she must enable history on her computer, delete him from her phone, stop all contact. She swears to me now that it has ended.


----"Et tu, Brute?"----
me:28 W:24 S4
T:6
M:4
EA Exposed: 5/21/10
Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day)
NC w/ OM: 7/10/10
W moved out 8/21/10
http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch