Never even made it thru your whole post, but serial infidelity? At least 3x by the time I stopped reading? And now she wants to blame this on you going golfing too much?
Sorry ... SEE ya. Cut her loose. The recidivism rate for serial adulterers is damned near 100%. She has a serious character flaw, and until SHE gets some professional help and owns up to it, you're going to have nothing but heartache with this woman.
Puppy
Maybe I wasn't clear enough. I was absent. I wasn't a good father (not because she told me, because I know it). I wasn't supportive enough for my family and picked myself over them many times, both monetarily and attention wise. I think that changes the situation on why she would seek outside "approval"
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch