Movin' On...

[Virtually_Handsome]

Well, BBJ, I don't think he has done anything past very creepy at this point. I think I would delete the posts, and defriend him.

[ImprovedRomeo]

Jeez louise, seriously, I missed the whole fb creepy guy fiasco and for a sec I thought you guys were all talking about me...phew!

OK so how the heck did he get your ph# and your address to deliver the flowers??! that's too creepy.

Boy you sure run into guys that know no boundaries...but hey you're become good at setting them so time to nip this in the bud too- just defriend him. He should get the message and hopefully that's enough.

[NNP1965]

I was going to post this but figured I better get your permission first.

...the only time I ever got flowers anonymously they were from a creepy married guy. I hope yours do turn out to be from Gary Allen, you deserve the best!

Can I huh, can I???

[BobbiJo]

Yeah I was thinking along the same lines....I almost posted a new status: "Found out the flowers were from a creepy married guy. Ick."

But on the 1% chance there is a legit guy out there, I didn't! Yours is more subtle, I like it!

[kat727]

Really, delete the whole thing that you posted regarding the flowers. He can still go there and see that you liked them so deleting his personal comment doesn't mean a whole heck of a lot. It is so easy to look up people, their addresses and phone numbers. Have you guys never heard of anywho.com? It is the phone book via the internet. I have to use it at work quite often to verify addresses and phone numbers.

Oh and even though I don't have my address listed in the phone book(due to a break in of a car years ago)my name and address are there. Just an FYI.

kat

[Kimmie Lee]

Do not delete anything! I am astounded that anyone would think that is a good idea.

You were right to think to keep them as "evidence" in case it escalates. Just make a hotmail folder called "evidence" and put them in there where you don't have to look at them every time.

[kat727]

What I was referring to was her post on FB. She already deleted the comment he made but he can still see how excited she was about getting the flowers. Sure keep all the note stuff on Hotmail as I wasn't referring to that.

Hope today is better and you don't hear from married creepy guy.

kat

[newmama]

I agree with Kat--but here is an idea- can you take a pic of your screen with the comments before you delete them???

And google "how to get rid of stalkers" I haven't looked it up yet but I bet there is some advice out there!

[kat727]

The thing is she already deleted his one comment, so I don't know how much help that will be...her talking about getting these beautiful flowers. And now no comment from him at all showing. I think the post on her FB wall just fed his ego.

kat

[BobbiJo]

First Yay--Went to the county fair for the steer/calf show. I love the fair! And yes I know the difference between heifer, cow, bull, and steer.

And my favorite smell in the world (beating out Starbucks and the smell of hot pavement like you smell on a hot day at Disney World or some other theme park)is most definitely the cattle barn...A mix of feed, hay, wood chip bedding, and manure. Yes manure. It is a heavenly smell!

Hot teacher guy was there. Married but not creepy, just friendly. I asked him if he was showing cattle and he showed me and the kids the one he had entered (he works for another farmer in the area as he can't afford cattle on a teacher's salary and lives in town). His heifer got Supreme Female which is awesome. She looked good too. (And yes I have been to enough shows I know which ones look good!)

Kids and I left worn out, hot, and (them) crabby but that's how fair goes. Nathan was mad his best pals had to leave. But hey, we had to leave too!

Then for the ick. Thought I blocked him off of fb this morning but I guess I only blocked him from certain applications or something. I have never blocked someone before...I am learning. Going to go block him after this post. Anyway I noticed that bc he commented on my status, again!

Also when I got home he had left a message on my answering machine!?! Wanting to know if I got his email containing his phone numbers and contact info. What, he thought I would call immediately or something?? Bleck.

Then he says, "And I see you got flowers yesterday. Sounds like some fun things are going on in your environment...talk to you soon!" Seriously. "Fun things in your environment?" Who talks like that???

Can you block a number from calling your house? So far he hasn't figure out my cell, thank goodness...