punkin...et al Sometimes you can't stay out of their way physically...but you can emotionally...don't react to their moods in front of them...be consistant with your moods...preferably always borderline cheerful but too much to be fakey... My H and I had very little contact...more because of him then me and like yours he got more and more alien to me...angry without reason and a lack of expression in his eyes...I can't exactly put my finger on it but he didn't "look" right to me...(he was right, that was for sure) They are dealing with their own inside demons...some will eventually conquer those demons...sadly some may not...only time will tell...it is hard to say that any actions they are showing right now will give a clue because all the clues I got for 2 years lead me to believe he was gone for good...
