4..is better than null. As the priest said to me, about 2 years ago, as I tried to save my marriage, "you both want to be sitting on the porch together, looking at your grandchildren play on the lawn and say to each other 'thank G-d we made it thru those tough times'" Two people need to make that scenario come true.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;