Update from this morning before leaving for work:

I've started a new routine in the morning. Our son wakes up before us so we let go and let him watch a 30 minute show while I shower and get ready for work. After that I make him breakfast every morning and then go wake up my W. She's always been a late sleeper and doesn't necessarily get up out of bed (maybe 1/5 times) when I'm leaving. Right before I said goodbye she said, "You look nice today" with a complement. I said thanks very much, and told her goodbye and to have a good day. Normally she would give me a hug and kiss, but I just walked out of the room. I felt devasted. I said goodbye to my son but forgot my phone in my room, so I had to go back. I went back in and she was laying there awake. I told her I forgot my phone, and then I gave in. I looked at her for a while, as if to say "Aren't you going to give me a hug?" After about 3-4 seconds she moved her arm to give me a hug. I gave her one, told her that I loved her and left. She said I love you back.

I'm not sure if that is wrong. Last night she gave me a kiss, but no hug this morning? Was I wrong to possibly pressure her into a hug? Am I at the point i should be using no contact physically - no ILY?


----"Et tu, Brute?"----
me:28 W:24 S4
T:6
M:4
EA Exposed: 5/21/10
Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day)
NC w/ OM: 7/10/10
W moved out 8/21/10
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