Hi Not posted for a while. Just journaling really. H has withdrawn again. It is now 26 days since he contacted. It is getting increasingly difficult to detach. No I am not going to make contact, but it is very frustrating when he withdraws after his moments of clarity. I now see that you are right snodderly and they are touch and go's, even though they seem like more at the time. The confusing thing I think for me now is.... Do touch and go's increase and become reconnection? and If I mistakingly though the touch and go's were reconnection, am I going to miss the actual reconnection? Watching and waiting for him to pop out of the tunnel again.