I also wanted to add that a conversation that we've had on that last Friday date included her saying things like:
I never want to be with anyone ever again. I just want to be alone forever. I don't want to be with anyone because I never want to let them do this to me again. I don't trust this "new" you to stick around, and even if the "new" you did stick around I still don't think I'd want to be with you.
She has re-started her med for depression and this has helped a little. I just wanted to give a little more insight.
I've also started taking med for ADD, which I've never really treated since I was an adult. As I'm sure you know, a person with ADD forgets the smallest of tasks and duties. This was a big problem in our M - like I couldn't remember to take out the trash, or fix something, or do this or that - it never occured to me to start. After getting on med, it has helped TREMENDOUSLY. I remember to make my wife coffee before she wakes up every morning. I take the trash out all the time. I do the dishes when she's not looking. I've not forgotten to do the littlest thing! I can see she appreciates this, but I don't know how deep is goes...
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch