More to come....

QS you need to realize there are many people on this forum who are fighting for thier marriages while living separately... There are argumentst that this can HELP as well.

Most important, since I don't have time to type a lot is to NOT JUST FOLD .... It validates her behaviour.

It's ok to be polite and throw an olive branch into the situation, but don't just CAVE because you aer in pain...

Mostly I am disgusted with this FT for allowing the sessions to get this out of hand. The FT is NOT supposed to GANG UP on you with a nasty mouthed wife and BOTH beat at you about selling a home... That is VERY UNPROFESSIONAL