OK Punkin, I'm going to give you my amateur dream analysis on this one. First of all, yes, this one's weird. lol
Here goes - You realize your H still loves you, but you also know he's not done cooking yet and don't want him back while he's only half baked and still confused.
Lingerie part? I got nothin' except maybe wishful thinking on your part??? That's how I'd be wishing anyway. LOL