We agreed to stay civil and agreed to joint custody. I also told her that she needs to relook at her relationship with the kids. They have both come to me seperately recently saying that she ignores them and is way to argumentative. She took it pretty well, no defensiveness and said she would work on it.
I'm really glad you took up for your kids here, Nav. I'd encourage you to keep a close eye on this, because they're going to need the both of you now, more than ever. If she DOESN'T pick up her game here, maybe YOU will re-visit the custody issue (go for primary custody).
When are you going to tell them? Have you thought about what you're going to say? SHE needs to own this, that this is HER decision.
