And Warrior..don't you wonder why she would want a guy who has found a vulnerable woman and dumped her after he gets her? Especially when she has someone like you who loves her so much. WTH?
I don't know if he dumped her. The fact that that woman ran back to her husband after two years with the guy tells me MLC for that woman. By the way, this guy is no prize. He is the opposite of me. He is not attractive and my wife would not be attracted to him. When the MLC'r takes this road, they are not who they are right now. I have read that the OP is usually a step down from the LBS. This guy is 10 steps down from me. That is why I know it won't last. But they have to hit rock bottom first. You are thinking like a rational person like my wife was. That gets thrown out through this and the MLC'r makes decisions they would never have made. The fact that this OP is so unattractive makes sense for me because it tells me again that my wife is not mentally there right now. MLC. Just seems like a curse on the family. Eric is right. Work on yourself. That is the way to get through the LBS tunnel. It does not matter what the MLC'r does or says. YOU have to get to that point where it won't control your life. I feel your pain. I really do. You think I am strong? I am not as strong as Eric. He seems to really have a handle on this. You and I both have a lot to work out in our heads. I can see who I can be and I will continue to work toward that. As you keep working on yourself, you will see who Taylor can be and you will be much happier as time goes on. The MLC'r continues to spiral out of control not finding the happiness they seek. That is their journey. You and I have ours. Our journey is much better. The guilt and mess they make will follow them around. I said it before and I will say it again for me and you "It is much better to be the LBS". Just don't lose yourself. Do what Eric says. Make a list for this week for YOU.
