Thanks everyone for the input. I would love to tell you I had a sleepless night but . . .This one stayed with me when I woke up.

He was on the phone with OW telling her that he loved her and he loved me but but he was staying here with me. I was horrified and trying to grab the phone and tell her to come pick him up. How's THAT for weird??? Also, he was going through my closet picking out lingerie. At this rate I'm going to end up on Jerry Springer.